Today I would like to share my thoughts regarding marriage. To tell the truth I do not understand those couples who decide to get married. I mean it is wonderful indeed but our life is unpredictable and you never know what to expect. So do we need to get married and what for we need it? Let’s try to sort it out.
As the rule couples decide to get married to follow the tradition. They do it because their parents did it. And I do not understand those who decide to change their lives when they have been knowing each other for six months (or less). They are sure they would love each other for the rest of their lives. Well, it is a mistake. I think it would be better to check your feelings and know your partner. Otherwise you would divorce in a month. I know personally such couples. They say it was an experience and they do not regret. I do not believe them. They just try to persuade themselves.
When having ceased consuming the toxic substances that affect the brain functioning the former addicts notice that though their physical and mental state is slowly improving the way of thinking remains altered forever. It is extremely difficult to get rid of the stereotypes and return to the healthy life. During the period of addiction the emotional burden caused by the negative experience was suppressed with the chemical substances such as alcohol, drugs or drastic medical agents. The former addicts tend to stream their negative feelings out upon their closest relatives and friends. The children are the ones who suffer in that situation more than the other members of the family. The young children can’t developed the psychological mechanisms of self-defense yet. It is a common thing when the former addict sees that his or her children have grown and realizes that a lot of life events have passed by without their participation. The attempts to catch up result in numerous conflicts and the alienating of the children.